Saturday, July 27, 2013

40 Days


What always seemed surreal is finally real. My plans that were once just a far off dream, are now a reachable reality.  In only 40 days I will be on a plane on my way to Washington DC to meet thousands of other teen exchange students like me, all of us embarking on a life changing experience abroad. It is a very exciting thought but is also equally as nerve wracking.

Preparation for my time abroad in Germany is a difficult thing. There are surely many things to prepare for, 95% of them being mental. To be honest, physical preparation is the easy part- bring a 50 lb bag to Dulles airport and you're golden.
Mentally preparing on the other hand, is a whirlwind process of constantly changing emotions. It changes from excitement about the wonderful host family I’ll be living with (who I have had yet to talk about), to being scared by the idea of having to make entirely new friends, then sadness about leaving my family friends and community, then nervousness as I realize all of it is going to be in a foreign language. Although I can’t face all of these emotions, I am as ready as I will ever be for the journey ahead of me.

With such a wonderful host family already welcoming me, I know acclimating to a new life in Germany will be much easier. I will be living in the city of Arnsberg in Nordhein Westfalen. This is a Bundesland that is in the far west of Germany, with major cities including Düsseldorf and Dortmund. Arnsberg is especially gorgeous as it contains beautiful traditional German architecture and is located in the mountains. My family includes meine Mutter, mein Vater und drei Brüder. My 3 brothers are ages 9, 15, and 17, though my 15-year-old brother will be abroad so I will not meet him. My family has taken great measures to make me feel welcome such as sending me birthday gifts and coordinating Skype sessions. I already feel like part of the family! I feel very comfortable staying with this family because they speak English, live in a good part of town, and have experience with hosting students and being exchange students. My older brother went with AFS to America as a sophomore, so not only is he fluent in English but he will be a great mentor for me in my time abroad. I'm very happy with my host family placement and living in a male dominated household will be an interesting  change for me because I have never had brothers.

With only 40 days left, the goodbyes come more frequently, starting with teachers or upcoming seniors who will graduate before I will see them again. Many people said goodbye to me at school, which felt nice to know I would be missed. I've had all summer to spend with my friends and family so I have tried my best to give them my attention in the few weeks we have left together.
It's all bitter sweet but I am happy that the people who surround me now are supporting me no matter how much they will miss me.
Everything in my Scituate life is coming to a slow, temporary, close as I prepare for an entirely new beginning! It’s very scary but I am ready to finally do what I have always dreamed of!
Bis später
Until later
Jenna

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